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‘Download’ a DPS (Decision Positioning System),
Part One described the importance of readiness through deliberate preparation and careful framing of the decision. When you are ready, these discussion steps will help you carefully weigh your options and discern the best course of action. |
Bottom Line: The path through uncertainty and risk has definite steps. You can pause at any time. If you make a misstep you can back up and spend more time at a previous step. If you take a wrong turn, you can get back in step. However, you can’t skip a step without weakening your decision. STEP ONE – ENGAGE by simply listening to each person’s initial perspective to lay the foundation for a learning dialogue.
STEP TWO – EXPLORE the range of values and principles involved in this decision
STEP THREE – ELEVATE your focus to the priority values and principles to guide your choice among the options available
STEP FOUR – EXPAND and refine the available options with as much thought and creativity as time permits
STEP FIVE – EDUCATE each other about the consequences and risks (the downside)
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STEP SIX – EVALUATE and choose the option that most closely aligns with the priority values and principles. Review the risks of your preferred option to develop a plan to mitigate the downside or confirm your willingness to accept the consequences.
STEP SEVEN – EXPLAIN the decision to affected stakeholders (those benefited, burdened, and concerned) in plain, candid language that includes the reasoning and the downside.
Future newsletters will build on this overview of the STEPS with specific guidance to skillfully implement the process, manage group dynamics, and make stronger decisions. |
Words of Wisdom
We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.
Albert Einstein Physicist
Stand for something or you will fall for anything. Today’s mighty oak is yesterday’s nut that held its ground.
Rosa Parks Civil rights pioneer
Perhaps the truth depends on a walk around the lake.
Wallace Stevens Poet
Practice Tip
Frame Your Decision Deliberately
Consciously allocate time between the problem space (Steps 1-2) and the solution space (Steps 3-7)
As dedicated “problem solvers,” many of us have to overcome the habit of quickly jumping to solutions.
You are not ready to consider solutions until you really understand the problem(s) to be solved and the concerns of affected stakeholders
Seek to Understand Pause to walk around the problem space together. Observe what seems to be important. Share your point of view with others. Make room for everyone’s voice. Be willing to see what others see. Reflect on other’s angle of vision and how it mirrors or differs from yours. It helps to draw out everyone’s contributions if the leader holds back to express her views after everyone else has spoken.
Don’t Believe Everything You Think. Look Again! When you have more than an hour, spend at least a third of your total time in the problem space to improve the group’s IQ and the way you are able to think together. Try out different decision frames. Assess the quality of the information (accuracy, significance). Identify missing information. Stress-test working assumptions. Identify relevant lessons learned.
Be Tenaciously Creative There are usually more than two options, even if some are variations. Find them! For example, you can take an action today. Or, you can wait for one week and take the same action. Or, you can wait with the status quo and only take action if some “trip-wire” event takes place. Ask additional questions to generate more options.
What if……?
Why couldn’t we….?
How have others addressed this challenge?
What would _________ do?
Silence>Stillness>Truth
Hold the decision question open in silence. Space for reflection may be a simple stretch break at a tense moment in the process, an agreement to sleep on it and reconvene the next day to make a final decision, or a ‘walk around the lake’ that allows the power and presence of nature to quiet the mind and heart. Clarity and conviction can emerge in open space. Intuitive wisdom sometimes speaks with a still, small voice.
- Reduce Framing Bias How you pose a question, problem, or decision affects the way see, assess, and respond. Ultimately, the quality of your frame affects the soundness of the decision. Frames include and exclude experience, values, training, people, options, and relevant information. Consider alternative ways to frame the decision question to consciously choose a frame that is well-focused AND expansive enough to hold all the relevant issues.
- Get Out of the Either-Or Box Don’t surrender your creativity before you get started. In situations of urgency, a common mistake is to plunge in “frame blind” and assume that a difficult decision is an either-or choice between unsatisfactory options. Frame the question to hold a space open for different, better options.
- Engage Multiple Perspectives Remember that what you see depends upon where you stand, and how you frame the issue and the possible options. The decision making expert and Nobel laureate, Daniel Kahneman, has an acronym that sums up the findings of neuroscience about the inherent limitations of one person’s perspective, no matter how smart he or she is. W.Y.S.I.A.T.I. WHAT YOU SEE IS ALL THERE IS! Recognize that your perspective is inherently subjective and limited. Be willing to become wiser by SEEING through others eyes and learning.